Why I Spent Last Night Panic Swiping on Bumble BFF

Thoughts on trying to make new friends as a grown up

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The first thing I know about friendship is that I’m not very good at it.

You see, I have social anxiety. This means that my default mode of thinking is that people either don’t notice me at all, and if they do notice me, they’re annoyed by… I don’t know, exactly. My…

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Pittsburgh-based writer & wearer of many metaphorical hats. Making words about books, pop culture, witchery, health, travel, and more! She/her.

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Amanda Kay Oaks

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Pittsburgh-based writer & wearer of many metaphorical hats. Making words about books, pop culture, witchery, health, travel, and more! She/her.

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